Contact SirbromanDudeguy on Discord with your exact in-game name for whitelisting. I'll get to it asap.
You can use bedrock clients to connect to this server! You might want to link your java and bedrock accounts so you keep the same character for both. Your bedrock account will also need whitelisted. More info here.
MCMMO: Skills, Level-ups, and other RPG additions.
Death Chest: Items get put into a chest for a limited amount of time after death.
Offline Growth: Crops grow even when chunks are unloaded and server is empty.
RH Leaf Decay: When wood is taken from a tree, leaves decay almost instantly.
Sleep-Most: Alters sleep behavior to be more friendly (>=1/2 of players must sleep to accelerate time).
I recommend using MultiMC for setting up an instance. Make sure you have 64 bit java 17 JDK which is required to run the latest version of MC.
I have uploaded my instance that you can import into MultiMC here. It includes a minimap mod, fabric API, Shaders, and multiple performance enhancement mods. Based on "Fabulously Optimized" modpack.